I have to admit that the film wasn`t even close to being as gross as I had heard it would be. So they make love, so they are kissing - if it were a hethero movie no one would say that it were explicit. Therefore I have no complaints for too much gay making out. I couldn`t have cared less for that. I`m also aware that the film was very masterfully done, a great experience for the eyes. But it doesn`t quite live up to the hype around it - I totally agree that the film isn`t about being gay but about relationships that aren`t accepted, but I guess had one of the characters been a woman no one would cared about this film. In that case it would be just another melodrama in the pattern of "Bridges over Maddison county". So, I think "BM" is a good film but far from a timeless masterpiece.